If you want to be the girl every guy wants, you've got your work cut out! Each guy is an individual, and his preferences may be completely different from the next boy's. However, there are some general strategies that can help you attract a guy.
Recognize that you are who you are. Your traits make you who you are, and that person is desirable. If you let your strengths shine, they will catch the eye of passing boys.
- Remember, self-confidence is very attractive!
- Join clubs and groups that center around your strengths. For example, if you love writing code, you might find similar guys at a computers club (and have plenty of fun programming in the meantime).
Speak up. Share your funny jokes and stories, actively contribute in discussions, and let the world know what you think. That way, boys who are attracted to your type will get to know you better, and realize that you're attractive. It's hard to be noticed if you're always hesitant to open your mouth.
Let your kindness shine through your actions. Compassion is an incredibly desirable trait, and it signals to guys that you'll treat them well.
- It's certainly okay to tease him every now and then, as long as you make sure that your jokes are kind and won't hurt his feelings!
- Avoid gossip. This can hurt people's feelings and undermine their trust in you, which you wouldn't want.
NEVER change who you are for a guy. Crushes pass, but your happiness is lifelong. Don't waste your time on a guy who doesn't appreciate who you are.
Look your best. Shower at least once everyday, wash your face, wear clean clothes, use deodorant, et cetera. It's okay to dress up and be trendy, but it's not necessary. A guy who is right for you will appreciate you for who you are, fashionable or consistent, fancy or down-to-earth, beautiful or ugly. It's your kind spirit that matters most of all.
Relax. Enjoy your time with guys, and don't worry too much about the rest. Love will come in its own time.